The Nervous Sub

I’ve mentioned in a few posts before that subs often message about their nerves pre-meeting. I, of course, point out that it is perfectly normal for a boi to experience nerves before meeting its Master. Sometimes it is newbies that feel scared but often it is experienced subs. I see it as a healthy thing and leads me to tailor meetings to the situation. For … Continue reading The Nervous Sub


My normal approach on Grindr is to make it clear I’m a Dom Top and then let the subs find me. I figure why waste time talking to lads I find attractive if they just say they aren’t kinky. I find fishing normally works well and mean I hook the right sort of boi. Of course, some just see the word Top and start to … Continue reading Newbie