After my Christmas break up north I switch Grindr on the second I am through the door of my flat. I would never have a meet when I was visiting family and the long visit means my balls are bursting. I have, of course, looked at my apps over the holiday but a lot less than normal. Also, I take down my face pic when … Continue reading That Didn’t Take Long
It has been a quiet weekend for me and Sunday was quickly fading away. Grindr was on my phone but I wasn’t really looking at it. I’d had a couple of chats with lads but not ones that were going to come to anything straight away. Sometimes it is best to play the long game. When that well-known noise sounded I looked down and saw … Continue reading Straight Spanking
For some people, the summertime increases their libido through the roof. As the parks and streets fill with people wearing less clothing the heat leads to cocks filling with blood and they need contact with another. As a pale-skinned Northern lad, the heat has the opposite effect on me. The humidity of London and a tragic event with a friend has put me off sex … Continue reading Dirty Thirty
The headless profile popped up very close to me so I decided to tap on the Grindr grid to see more. The 25-year-old had no text up, just his age and the peach emoji 🍑. His details told me he was short, thin and bottom. It was enough for me to say Hi. He immediately responded with another headless photo but this time in tight, … Continue reading Just Pound Me
It feels strange being in this area of London and not being on my way to see my sub from 15 Years A Slave. Tonight I am visiting a couple who I’ve been chatting to on Recon. They sound like a horny pair with one submissive and the other is submissive but can switch. I have made it clear I don’t require a switch and … Continue reading A Couple of Subs
Quite often on apps, you get guys saying their English isn’t very good. It is a brave decision to move to a country where you don’t speak the lingo. I remember when I first met the Spanish lad in the post Just Friends and A Urinal. He explained in excellent English that he had been in London a year and had arrived speaking no English. … Continue reading Language No Barrier
Regular readers of my blog will know that I quite often have straight lads offer themselves up for abuse. Whether a session is limited to just feet, bondage or no-holes-barred is entirely up to them. Sometimes these straights are new to men and sometimes they are more bisexual. Whatever their position on the spectrum it doesn’t bother me, as long as they are willing to … Continue reading Bending The Straight
As I have mentioned before, pre-meet I’m always willing to listen to a sub and hear what ideas they have. I had met this sub once before after it had responded to an advert on Craigslist. You will not be surprised to hear it is another sub in a sexless relationship: Crying out for hard sex and a cock up its arse. Maybe I should write … Continue reading That’s Torn It!
When I use Craigslist I put a link to this blog. It gives lads a good idea of what I’m after and I how I use subs. I don’t want to waste time on a boi that hasn’t accepted its role in life. Quite often I get replies with the statement ‘you can do what you want’. I treat these lads with a certain reserve, … Continue reading Do What You Want
I always get a lot of messages from lads in relationships. Maybe they get bored of kisses and cuddles and just need some rough sex occasionally. I have a new lad near me who needs it more than occasionally though. Plus he gets off on sailing close to the edge. He’s given me his boyfriend’s mobile number and said if he upsets me I can … Continue reading But I’ve Got A Boyfriend!